There is an internal conflict within each until it is resolved.
- The left brain, the logical brain hemisphere.
- The right brain, the belief, creative brain hemisphere.
When they are not united, they are fighting, conflicting with each other, out to prove the other side wrong; this is how self-sabotaging happens.
Example:
Right brain hemisphere, belief: “You can do anything you set your mind to!”
Left brain hemispheres, logic: “No, you cannot, can you not remember the time when you did that, and that, and that? What makes you think you can? There is also the evidence, facts, proven facts that you cannot see….., it is impossible”!
What happens when the two sides work together?
Example:
Right brain hemisphere, belief: “You can achieve anything you set your mind to”!
Left brain hemisphere, logic: “True, the evidence shows that you can when you are able to focus, you can focus, and when you persist and keep going, you can always achieve what you want. Now, what is the problem we have? Let’s solve it and keep going till we achieve it!”
The left brain will NOT bring up the mistakes that happened, but looks for supportive elements to move towards the outcome.
Learn to UNIFY the brain hemispheres, and you will be SELF-HEALING in no time, else you will struggle.
The conflict within will cause the self-sabotaging, you will NOT be able to self-heal.