Often we ‘assume’ others know what is expected, we call it ‘common sense’.
How will we know if we are not told where the lines (expectations) are when interacting with others?
Trial and errors is how we figure out what the expectations are from another.
In relationship, it is best to communicate the expectations clearly to each other, else there be a lot of ‘mistakes’ in the journey.
If you can to have more loving moments, communicate the expectations to those you love, so that they do not have to find out through trial and errors.
Don’t expect, communicate your expectations!