Life is about respecting one’s own discovery.
We discover at our own pace, the pain teaches us how to do better to not have the pain, the pleasure teaches us to have more because we know how to handle the pleasures. We have to discover and steer towards greater love, higher vibrations.
When we are not being respected, our pace of discovery slows, we retaliate, and we will feel more pain in the retaliation. The best way is to respect their falls, failures, and pain till they are ready to change. It pains us as parents, but the children must feel the pain at their own pace to change for the better.
Learn to respect their journey, let go of the attachment of pain to their falls. Still be in touch for them to come back to us to assist them. This is how you can help the world, respect their falls till they are ready.