Many relationship falls apart because they are attched to only one type of love.
There are 5 types or levels of love, they are:
- Physical love, where it you are touching each other, you are in love, like parent holding the babies to show love.
- Connected/communication love, where you have to talk to each other to allow the other that they are loved, you have to tell them, “I love you” if you don’t they feel uneasy and will provoke a problem to get you to talk so whos that you cared, remembered.
- Peace love, where you can have separation but still love eacho ther, like when children goes to school and the parents have peace from the noise but certain the children are safe at school, till they come back.
- Harnony love, where you know they are safe even days you do not talk to each other, they know you are there for them when you need them.
- Soul love, where you trust them always to be there for you, through good and bad time, you will always be there for them.
The problem happens when they one things there is only one type of love. Love evolves deeper over time.
There is also the transition love, where one moves from one type of love to another type, they are uncertainty, having doubt about whether they are loved or not because the condition has changed, there is a confusion in the mind wondering if they are loved or not because it is something new that they are not use to.
Learn to know your partner’s type of love, so that you can assure them that they are loved to keep the relationship strong.
- They could just need to touch them and look at them, they will feel the love.
- They could just need to be told “I love you” and not even need to touch to feel loved.
- They could just need to need to hear “I love you” once in a while, not daily to feel loved.
- They could just need to know you love them because you appear once a while to visit to feel loved.
- They could not even have to see or talk to each otehr for prolong period of time to know they are loved, because they trust each other.
Know what your partner’s love is and fulfill their need and you will have the strong relationship that lasts.