Expect not

If you seek calmness, expect not!

• You do because you want to do, but do not expect anything in return.
• When you do not expect, you are not emotional.

As parents, we fall into the thinking that we did all that we are for the children, we should get something back.  That’s conditional love.

As parents, we need to learn to be unconditionally loving to our children, do not expect any thing in return from them.  If they are nice to you, be grateful, else keep living your life in calmness.

Do not fall into the conditional loving parents, “I did all that for you and this is how you treat me”?  This is the best way to create negative emotions for yourself.

Be unconditional loving parents.