When are you going to start living life?

I help people to ‘achieve’ what they want in life.  This is what I do best, how to live life productively.

I tell them…

1. 1. What is it that you want in life, this is what you FOCUS ON to achieve;
   2. You FILTER OUT what does not get you to what you focus on;
   3. You FLOW TO what you want by SOLVING PROBLEMS towards that FOCUSED WANT;
   4. REPEAT:

When you do this, when you acheived, it you FEEL HAPPY, EXCITED, then you enjoy the moment of accomplishment, then you go, “NEXT” till you had enough.

That’s basically life of the first part, well, that is to stage 2!

By the time you get to this, you will be in your 50s.

You get to ENJOY TIME with your family, grandchildren, if you are NOT spiritual

The journey continues if you are spiritual, lots more to do, but if you are not, then JUST ENJOY will your time to START AGAIN in another life time.

Spiritually, we have a longer way to go, we need to go through the stages in life, beyond stage 3 to stage 7, that’s a longer story, but for most people, we get to STAGE 2, which is when you achieve what we want, we get to a point of contenment, we stay there in stage 2.  Then we start another life time, to repeat the same, to stage 2.

Life is simple, just go from Stage 1 to stage 2.

In order to help, to assists, I will ask them one question to start the ball rolling, as mentioned above, “what is it that you want in life”?

The answers I get, when they are being honest, it is beyond my comprehension!

How is it possible that we don’t know what we want in life?

It is unimaginable to me, yet, many are doing through this, “what is it that I really want in life”?

“I DON’T KNOW”!

But, how is it that we don’t know what we want?

The answer was that I get from most of the clients are:

1. 1. I study hard because I was told to, I did that;
   2. I get a drivers license, I did that;
   3. I find a job and make money, I did that;
   4. I started businesses, braver than the average bear, I did that extra mile;
   5. I find a partner, got maried, I did that;
   6. I make a family, I did that;
   7. I look after family, I did that;
   8. I look after grandchildren, I did that;

It was all TOLD to me, this is how I am meant to live my life.

Now that I am looking after my grandchildren, I don’t have to energy anymore.

I live a ‘default life’, a ‘hand me down’.

I really don’t know what I want!

What is the next ‘box’ to tick off?

No one is telling me, maybe it is my time to die?

That is literally the next step, that’s why no one says it, it is too morbid!  We wait for our time and RESET, we start another life time, forgetting what we had and start again!

It is odd but it actually sounds like how many live their lives, TOLD WHAT TO DO, HOW TO LIVE LIFE according to what OTHERS IDEAS of life is to be lived.

After all, we do not have a book to read from, a LIFE MANUAL, is there?

We are all learning along the way, the best we can.

We copy from what our parents did and they did the same from what their parents did, the best way we know how.  The pattern remains the same!

We really do not spend time on what we really want in life.

We just ADOPTED what others did and make it our own.

Sure we have “BETTER” things compared to others yet, it is basically the same ‘tick boxes’, right?

How would you tell them, “what do you really want in life” when they tell you this, “I don’t know”?

Most of the time, we are ‘chasing money’ for the ‘better things’, but in essence the same tick boxes.  I will always ask them this, “You you wish, hope or pray”?  YES.

• • WRITE THEM DOWN.
  • “They are WHAT YOU WANT”!
  • That’s the STARTING POINT, your FOCUS POINTS!

• • You know what to do, you had lots of practices, you DO WHAT IS NEEDED to COMPLETE your TICK BOX, these are your TICK BOXES of WHAT YOU WANT, no longer what others wants you to do, but YOU!

• • This list, is your starting point to LIVING YOUR LIFE, what WHAT YOU WANT in YOUR LIFE!

It is so easy to get lost in living other’s life!

It is NOT easy to live your own lives!

It takes one to be BRAVE to START living our own lives;

It takes one to have COURAGE to not worry about what others will say to start living our own lives.

The real question is, “are you brave enough, courageous enough to start living your life”?

Hey what else have you got to loose when you are in your 50s or 60s?

Just sit and wait for the time to slip you by, wait for the grim reaper to take you?

Why not start NOW?

I really don’t know what age you are, but WHY NOT START LIVING YOUR LIFE instead of the default way to live life?

• • We are here now.
  • We came into the world alone;
  • We leave the world alone;
  • Why not LIVE OUR LIVES NOW?  Instead of living other’s thought of how to live life?

What have you got to loose?

Yes, we have eternity, many life times, as many as we want, till we START our LIVES.

Why not choose this life time to start?

I rememeber when I ask my dad, “dad, what is the meaning of life”?

“MONEY, make money, don’t spend time thinking about these meaningless thing”!

I bought his story, I live his story.

Don’t get me wrong, nothing wrong with this, this life, I am living in a house, instead of living on the street of SYDNEY, seeing the homelss on the main street of Sydney, in parks with card boxes as shelter in the cold nights!

Now, it is time for me to START LIVING MY LIFE!

I even study accounting, because he tells me to do accounting, to count money, to look after money, to look after the family money, to work for him!

I don’t like it but I did it anyway!

It is what he wants.

I reasoned that he knows best, he is my father after all, he has been on earth much longer than me, he must know what life is about, his experiences will have taught him about life.

I lived it.

NOPE, it is NOT for me!

Wife passed.

I realised that life is short, fleeting even.

She was not ready to go, I asked her, she said, “NO, I am not ready to go”!

“What would I want to have DONE to be READY to go”?

This is where I simplified what I learned in life, summaried to HOW TO LIVE LIFE, I assists people who wants to know, I will teach them the 4 simple things:

1. 1. FOCUS on what you want, not what others want;
   2. FILTER out what is not towards what you want;
   3. FLOW towards what you want, by solving what is needed to get what you want;
   4. REPEAT till you no longer have WANTS, then you are ready, no more regrets in life!

Of ccause it all begins with, “WHAT DO YOU WANT”?

What do you want STARTS the ball rolling.

• • Your CONFUSION, CONFLICTS, CHAOS in life will be displaced from your life;
  • Your STUCKNESS in repeating loops will end;
  • Your EMOTIONAL roller coaster will disappear;

• • Your FEAR and LAZINESS will go away;
  • Your NEGATIVE EMOTIONS will no longer weigh you down into depression and suicidal thoughts about how UNFAIR the world is;
  • Your COMPETITION and CONTROLLING need will end;

• • Simply because you are SO BUSY FOCUSED on what you want, you have no time for anything else but to TICK OFF your WANT LIST!

You see, when you have the 4 things, kicked off with “what do you want”.

You will start to have CLARITY in life and start to MOVE from STAGE 1 to STAGE 2.

That’s really all you need when you are NO into spirituality.

You will no longer have regrets when your time comes.

If you are spiritual, then you will have the CALLING, you will go to stage 3 and stage 4 and beyond, where you no longer RESET, you will continue the journey, the spiritual journey HOME!

It is your choice how you want to life your life.

• • REPEATED LIVES in stage 1?
  • BETTER REPEATED LIVES in stage 2?
  • Or BEYOND, to RETURN HOME?

Which ever you choose, it all begins with, 

• • “WHAT DO YOU WANT IN LIFE”?  
  • Write them down then 
  • FOCUS, FILTER, FLOW till you are DONE!

Choose wisely!