If we can focus on HOW to solve the problem, our lives will change for the better.
I was listening to some co-authors talking in my group today.
Most people focus on WHY ME, they are focusing on their problems and not on solutions of HOW TO GET THROUGH THIS?
In the group, they spend so much time thinking why me, I am not deserving, considering death as a better option, then something happened, the mindset shifts from WHY ME to the OPPOSITE, which means from internal problems to the external, which is the solution.
Often, we spend so much time ON INTERNAL PROBLEMS, we forget to LOOK OUT for the SOLUTIONS.
WHY ME is essentially spiraling down into self-pity and self-blaming. In times like this, we need to LOOK OUT for solutions. When the shift happens, the author’s life changes, and the life becomes ‘brighter’.
If you are ready to change your life, just do this:
HOW TO SOLVE THIS? Instead of WHY ME?