If you want a strong, lasting relationship, you need to know WHY and WHAT you love about your partner.
No guessing game, “If you love me, you should know what I like, love”! Or, “You cannot know me in a short time; it takes years to know a person”. The belief is that we need to be a mystery to keep the relationship fresh.
Why do you need to know what and why you love your partner?
So that you do not accidentally do something wrong by their expectations!
If you want the person to be happy and in love with you, you want to NOT cross their boundary, so that you can keep communicating. Many family loves silent treatment, YOU SHOULD KNOW, I should have to tell you what you can or cannot do!
When you know what they like, love, fear, hate, and dislike, you can work with that and keep working on their like and love to strengthen the relationship while not provoking the other with their dislike, hate, and fear.
- Find out what they like, love about you?
- Find out what you do like, love about your partner?
Keep doing what they like and love, this will keep the relationship strong, through the tough times together!
We really need to WORK on our relationship, to make it stronger! Remember, if you don’t work at it, you lose it, like the muscles in our body.