Relationship types

We are vibrational beings, we exchange vibration (life force) with each other, those who have lots will flow to those who have little or close to none.  That’s how we equalize, normalize because we are all part of the whole.  Our vibration are intertwined.

• Some relationship raise (amplifies) your vibration, some relationships drains you.

Relationship types that are great for you are the ones that ‘amplifies’ each other.

Be aware of the are relationships that ‘drains‘ your life force (vibration) away, the toxic ones, some of them are not easily identified.

There are 3 types of toxic relationship you want to be very aware of because some of them can ‘over drain you‘, you get sicker and sicker, and when your life force (vibration) goes below -700 vibrational value, you literally ‘drop dead’, literally dies from the relationship, to start another life time to repeat again.

• Toxic relationship you know, you can feel the drain, as they walk in the room, you can feel your energy drops, you feel cold suddenly, you are being drained fast, the contrast is so fast, you can feel tired, fingers and toes get cold, you can even identify the source of the drain, you know, you can ‘walk away’ from so that you do not have to be near them instantly, because you know.
• Toxic relationship you doubt, you feel tired after the met up, you wonder and feel that you know you should not have gone to catch up, but you kept the relationship because you had known them for a long time, it has been a long time building the relationship, these relationship are rare, right?  But that nagging feeling keep telling you not to.  They drain you because their vibration is in the negative, they are draining you but ‘not intentional’, but they do feel good after they had been with you, they want to keep in touch, because they felt good, they were taking your life force.  They are the toxic friend that you feel you want to keep in touch, you don’t think you should break off, should walk away especially when you do not know HOW TO RAISE YOUR OWN vibration (life force).
• Toxic relationship charismatic, they are the one you feel pumped up when you are there or even a day after but tired a whole day after the high, even a week or a month after, you are so excited to see them and then after, you feel so bad or even sick.  They are intentionally draining your life force, but you want to go see them again, like going to donate blood to them without you knowing that you are donating blood.  They are the vampires who takes your life force away and you thank them for taking them from you.  You should definitely not met again but you do because they are so charismatic!  There are so many people around them, you feel so good when you are there!  You just cannot break away, you want to go back again and again, it is like you have been charmed!  They will drain all of your life force, they put in a ‘time delay’ to drain you, to confused you, makes you doubt, ‘narrrr, they are not toxic, everyone loves them, how can they be toxic?’  They do that ‘time delay draining’ so that you do not know they are draining you, these you need to be very careful, they are very toxic!

You want the AMPLIFYING relationship, one where both are exchanging and building each other’s vibration up, you are raising your vibration, they are raising their vibration without being together, where both feels great each day sharing higher vibrations, not the toxic ones mentioned above.  Remember, you can WALK AWAY, you are not a tree.

There is nothing wrong with giving away your life force, as that is the universal law of vibration, higher vibration flows to the lower vibration WHEN you can keep raising your vibration higher to give to those lower vibration.   If you can keep raising your vibration much more than it is being distributed, DO GIVE like Santa Claus!

Do choose your relationship wisely!

Stay with one that amplifies both (the ‘soul mates’), walk away from one that drains you (the ‘vampires’).