Stage 1 of the very long journey in life is a ‘conditional’ reality; it is conditional because if it were unconditional, there would be NO WAR!
Think about it, if you have unconditional service to all, there is NO RIGHT, NO WRONG, there is NO need to have conflict, confusion, wars! It is because there is a ‘condition’ that we are in conflict with you.
There is NO SUCH THING as UNCONDITIONAL when you are in STAGE 1 of the very long journey of life! It is VERY CONDITIONAL!
You want freedom?
- DO WHAT I SAY, then you have the FREEDOM to do what you want.
- If you DO NOT DO AS TOLD, you will have NO FREEDOM, you will be PUNISHED.
Sounds like a conditional freedom? Well stage 1 is CONDITIONAL FREEDOM, CONDITIONAL LOVE, there is no such thing as as UNCONDITIONAL LOVE or UNCONDITIONAL FREEDOM in stage 1 of the very long journey!
Due to conditions to live by, we get EMOTIONAL, the ups and downs of emotions are due to the CONDITIONS! Yes, in stage 1, we tend to be EMOTIONALLY turbulent in stage 1! This is HOW we know which stage we are in. Stage 1 is emotional, confusing, conflicting, fighting with those around us; the CONDITIONS are NOT met. There is a RIGHT way and a WRONG way of doing things. We have to SHOW OUR NEGATIVE EMOTIONS to condition them into CONDITION, OBEDIENCE, then we turn our negative emotion into POSITIVE emotion as a reward. These negative and positive emotions are a ‘conditioning tool‘ many parents use to condition children into obedience. Look up ‘pavlov dog‘ experiment, pavlov use reward (under these conditions) and punishment (under these conditions) to condition the dog into obedience to only DO the reward condition.
There is UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, UNCONDITIONAL FREEDOM when you are in STAGE 3 of the very long journey of life! Reason being, you have learned to ACCEPT the conditional stage 1, you have to do as told, else you will not get your conditional freedom to do what you want.
See stage 1 as such, you are the fish in the transparent fish bowl. You can see the world outside, but you CANNOT go outside, yo uhaev the FREEDOM inside the fish bowl, as long as you stay inside the bowl, the owner will GIVE YOU FOOD, else you are mis behave, the owner will NOT give you food. In fact, the owner will zap you to make you feel bad for not doing tricks for then owner, when they owner point the finger at you, you do not CHASE the owner’s finger smiling!
You have to DO AS TOLD in stage 1, CONDITIONAL or CONTROL if you like a more familiar word, else there be WAR, CONFLICT, CONFUSION!
How to get beyond the conditional stage 1, the confusion, conflicting war stage?
- ACCEPT others’ pace of change;
- RESPECT their conditional needs;
- RESPONSIBLE for your own OUTCOME by working within their conditions;
- FOCUS on your outcome, FILTER OUT the distractions, and FLOW towards your outcome with massive action;
Remember:
- You cannot change the conditional world you live in.
- You CAN CHANGE yourself and move into stage 2 (peace) and stage 3 (harmony and peace).
There was an experiment that showed, when there are 5% or was it less, about 3%? Come together to meditate on peace, and the whole town becomes peaceful!
When MORE people start to CHANGE themselves to move to stage 2 and stage 3, the CONDITIONAL WORLD will CHANGE to a more UNCONDITIONAL world of FREEDOM and LOVE!
What to live in an unconditional freedom, unconditional love reality?
If you want PEACE (stage 2) and HARMONY (stage 3) change yourself first and affect others around you to change; they do the same, and you will have begun the transformation from conditional to unconditional.
Choose wisely as always!