You always get what you want when you are able to stay FOCUSED!
When something is important to you, you will be able to stay focused; you will not get distracted and not get what you want.
Know that we are used to ‘changing mind’; we like to change other people’s minds with all sorts of tricks, by guilt tripping you and all sorts of emotional manipulations to get you to ‘change your mind’. FOCUS on what you want anyway, if you really WANT that, you will filter out what they say to try to get you to change your mind.
Have you ever been to Thailand? I did, when you get off the bus, they will come and ask for money, hundreds of them. You need to learn to say NO and keep WALKING away. I have seen many have thousands of Baht end up with nothing because they cannot say NO, they have all the reasons why they should give, because they are less fortunate, and you are better than them… only end up asking me for money for some drinks because they had given away all their baht.
When you are FOCUSED, you know that is what you want.
The problem with most people is this:
WE ARE NOT CLEAR ABOUT WHAT WE REALLY WANT. This is why we don’t always get what we want in life!
- FILTERING out is easy when we know what we want;
- SAY NO is easy when we know what we want;
- WALK AWAY is easy when we know what we want;
- KEEP WALKING towards your FOCUS want is easy when we know what we want.
The real question is, “Do you know what you want“?
Figure out what you want, and you will always GET WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE, it is only WHEN!!